Introduction
Hostility means showing aggression or anger towards others, often without reason. It can cause arguments, fights, and hurt feelings, damaging relationships. Being kind and understanding, instead of being hostile, helps create a more peaceful and happy environment.
Stories to reflect on :
At School
In school, Nisha had a short temper. If someone accidentally bumped into her, she would lash out, yelling or pushing them away. One day, a classmate accidentally spilled water on her desk. Instead of calmly handling it, Nisha shouted angrily, making everyone uncomfortable. The teacher noticed and said, “Nisha, your anger pushes people away. Instead of reacting harshly, try talking things out. You’ll see how kindness can solve problems more easily.”
Nisha decided to give it a try. The next time something went wrong, she remained calm and spoke kindly. She was surprised to see that people respected her more and problems were solved without any fights.
At Home :
At home, Varun often got into arguments with his little brother, Rohan. He would get irritated over small things, like Rohan touching his toys or playing loudly. One day, after an especially heated argument, their mother sat them down and explained, “Hostility only creates distance between you two. Instead of yelling, try understanding what the other person feels.” Varun realized he was being too harsh and decided to be more patient with his brother, which improved their relationship.
Action Points:
- Pause Before Reacting: When you feel angry or hostile, take a deep breath and calm down before responding.
- Communicate Peacefully: Instead of yelling or fighting, talk about how you feel in a calm and respectful way.
- Practice Kindness: Treat others with kindness, even when you feel upset. This will help in resolving conflicts smoothly.
Panchatantra Story:
In the Panchatantra, there is a story of two birds living in a tree. One was peaceful and kind, while the other was hostile and always fought with other animals. The hostile bird made many enemies, while the kind bird had many friends who helped when trouble came. The story teaches that hostility pushes others away, but kindness brings people together.
Thirukural Quote: “To those who err, show patience and forbearance; for hostility will only increase their faults.”
— Thirukural 314
Joke:
Why did the angry baker throw his dough across the room?
Because he really kneaded to let off some steam! 🍞 😤😂
