Gentle Vs Hurtfulness 😔💔

Introduction

Being hurtful means using words or actions that cause emotional or physical pain to others. Often, we may not realize how much our words can affect someone.

Choosing kindness instead of hurtful behavior helps build stronger, happier relationships and prevents regret.
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Help Neha at School

In school, Priya had a habit of making fun of her classmates. One day, she called her friend Neha “clumsy” in front of everyone when Neha dropped her lunch tray.

Though Priya thought it was just a joke, Neha felt embarrassed and hurt.

That night,

Neha didn’t call Priya as she usually did, and Priya felt lonely.

The next day, Priya realized that her words had caused pain. She apologized to Neha and promised to be more careful with her words. Neha forgave her, and Priya learned that words, once spoken, can’t be taken back, so it’s better to speak kindly.

Help Karthik at Home

At home, Karthik would often say mean things to his younger brother when he was frustrated, like “You’re so annoying!” His brother became upset and started avoiding him.

One evening, their mother said,

“Karthik, your words are hurting your brother. When you’re upset, take a deep breath instead of saying something you’ll regret.”

Karthik realized how hurtful his words were. He apologized to his brother and promised to be kinder. He learned that a moment of frustration isn’t worth hurting someone you care about.

Reference from Panchatantra Stories

In the Panchatantra, there’s a story about two birds—one kind and one hurtful. The hurtful bird constantly mocked the other animals, while the kind bird helped everyone in need. When the hurtful bird needed help one day, no one came to its aid because of the pain it had caused. The story teaches that being hurtful pushes people away, while kindness brings support and friendship.

Thirukural Couplets

“The wound caused by fire heals, but the wound caused by words does not.”
— Thirukural 128

Think Before Speaking: Take a moment to consider how your words or actions will affect others.
Apologize When Necessary: If you hurt someone, say sorry and make amends quickly.
Choose Kindness: Make an effort to speak kindly, especially in moments of frustration or anger.