Introduction
Jealous means feeling bad or upset because someone else has something you want β like a toy, a talent, or attention from others. It’s a feeling that says, “I wish I had that too!” It leads to negative thoughts and actions, often spoiling relationships and happiness. Instead of feeling envious, feel content!
Help AnshulΒ at School
In school, Anshul was always jealous of his friend Anbu because he scored higher grades in every subject. One day, Anshul spread rumors about Anbu, hoping to make him unpopular. However, Anbu didn’t react, he didn’t let it bother him at all! In fact, during class, he helped Anshul understand a difficult lesson. Anshul felt surprised and a little ashamed.
From that day on, Anshul decided to stop comparing himself to others.
Anshul realized that his envy made him act badly, and by learning from Anbu’s kindness, he started improving his grades through hard work.
Help Bhumi at Home
At home, Bhumi feltΒ jealousΒ of her sister Anjali because Anjali got lots of attention for being great at dance. One evening, their parents gently told Bhumi that everyone has something special β and she just hasnβt found her spark yet, but thatβs okay.
Bhumi realized that instead of feeling jealous, she could be happy for her sister. So, she started cheering for Anjali during her dance shows.
Inspired by her sisterβs hard work, Bhumi began exploring her own interests and soon discovered she loved geology!
From then on, they cheered each other on β one twirling on stage, the other digging into rocks β and their sisterly bond grew stronger than ever.
Reference from Panchatantra Stories
In theΒ Panchatantra, there’s a story of a bird who was envious of a swanβs beauty and tried to imitate it. The bird ended up losing its own feathers while trying to become something it wasnβt, learning that one should appreciate their own unique qualities instead of envying others.
Thirukural Couplets
“Jealousy brings disgrace; it destroys those who nurture it like poison in their hearts.”
β Thirukural 165
- Celebrate Others’ Success: Instead of feeling envious, appreciate others’ achievements and learn from them.
- Focus on Self-Improvement: Turn envy into motivation by working on your strengths.
- Be Grateful: Practice gratitude for what you have, whether it’s skills, relationships, or opportunities.
Why did the jealous grape stop competing with the apple?
Because it realized, they both make a perfect bunch together! ππ
