Decisive Vs Indecisive

Decisive Vs Indecisive  🤔

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Introduction

Indecisiveness means being unable to make a choice or decision, often due to fear of making the wrong one. It can cause delays, missed opportunities, and frustration.

Learning to make decisions confidently helps you move forward and grow, even if mistakes happen.

Help Riya at School

In school, Riya always struggled with making decisions. Whether it was choosing which book to read or what project idea to pursue, she would constantly ask her friends, “What should I do?”

One day, the teacher announced a big art competition, and Riya couldn’t decide what to paint. She wasted so much time worrying about the perfect idea that she ended up not submitting anything.

Her teacher noticed and said,

“Riya, making decisions is part of learning. Even if you don’t always make the best choice, it’s better to decide and learn from it than not to decide at all.”

Riya realized that being indecisive only held her back and promised to start making choices, even if it felt difficult.

Help Aarav at Home

At home, Aarav was always indecisive when his family asked what he wanted for dinner or what movie to watch. His parents noticed that his indecision caused delays and frustration.

One evening, his father told him,

“Aarav, it’s okay to take time to think, but being indecisive makes everything harder for everyone. Trust your gut and make a choice—there’s no perfect answer!”

Aarav started practicing making small decisions, like choosing a family activity, and noticed that his confidence grew each time.

Reference from Panchatantra Stories

In the Panchatantra, there’s a story of a rabbit that couldn’t decide which path to take in the forest. It kept running back and forth, too afraid to commit to one direction. Eventually, a hunter saw the confused rabbit and captured it. The lesson is that indecision can lead to danger, while taking action, even if uncertain, leads to better outcomes.

Thirukural Couplets

Thirukural Quote: “The wavering mind hesitates, but firm decision brings success.”
— Thirukural 666

  1. Trust Yourself: Believe that your decisions are valid and that you can handle the consequences, even if they’re not perfect.
  2. Take Small Steps: Start by making smaller decisions, then work your way up to bigger ones.
  3. Learn from Choices: Mistakes are part of life. Use them as lessons to improve future decision-making.

Why was the math book so indecisive?
Because it had too many problems to solve! 

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